Whats actually foreplay?? Sounds fun but at that time I didn't know what is that actually. Hmmm it's actually a set of intimate psychological and physical acts between two or more people meant to create and increase sexual arousal.
It basically involves touching, kissing, talking & teasing. This may include methods of satisfaction too. Owh well, I would like to share with you guys on foreplay techniques and sexy ideas for couples. I feel it's a fun filled ideas.
*Please note that it is just ideas and techniques.
So many times, people rush to give attention to the obvious erogenous zones without first heightening passion in other ways. The next time you’re with your partner, we suggest you give some special attention to their legs. Work from the bottom to the top, lingering at each location. Kiss the backs of their ankles. Tickle their calves. Blow on the backs of their knees. Then stroke and massage their inner and outer thighs using a mix of light and heavy strokes. This last part of your "journey" will not only create exquisite sexual tension between you, it will also physically prep your partner for an amazing orgasm by bringing extra blood flow to their genitals.
Ever wonder how to use your teeth during love play without harming the object of your desire? (After all, the human bite can do some damage, LOVE BITE...Haha..The first rule of thumb is start slowly and be gentle. Communicate with your partner as you go to establish what feels right. It wouldn't be fun if your partner doesn't feel happy right?? You might begin by simply grazing parts of your lover’s body as you kiss them, using the edges of your teeth almost like fingernails, lightly tickling shoulders, arms, hands. Or suck each one of your lover’s fingers, softly applying the pressure of your teeth as you remove them from your mouth. If they enjoyed this technique, try lightly biting the back of their neck or other body parts during a session of passionate necking. Their reaction will likely tell you right away whether it’s something that they enjoy and if it’s safe to apply more pressure. But remember, in the heat of the moment it’s easy to get worked up. When you’re using your teeth there’s a fine line between inflaming your lover’s passion and inflicting pain. Be careful. LOL!
If you want to add more sensuality to your love play -- and to your daily life -- have your partner rub you down with your favorite lotion after your morning shower or at the end of the day before going to bed. In the five or ten minutes it will take to cover you from head to toe, you’ll both benefit from the touch of one another’s skin, the feel and smell of the lotion, and the whole experience of being close. Then next time, you can do the honors*evil look*. This allows your lover to feel the warmth of your touch and have you explore every single inch of their body. In the short time it takes to complete this sensual ritual, you’ll not only take care of your bodies and ease daily tension, but most importantly, you’ll enjoy reconnecting as a couple.
If your house is like most, then you’ve got games stacked in a closet somewhere that rarely get used. It might be an old board game, a word game, or a trivia game. Whatever you have around, take it out some night when your lover is with you and challenge them to a game. They might not be very excited until you tell about the sexy stakes. What could that be?? Maybe you play a game where spelling out naughty words is encouraged and the winner gets to have the loser as their love slave for a night>:). A match might require you to shed a piece of clothing for each missed answer. The rules you choose can be your own. What's important is that you make the night playful and passionate using what you've already got around. Anyone up for naked Twister?
It's long been known at least among so called sports widows and the occasional sports widower that your significant other's sports season of choice can put a damper on your sex life. "Baby, just let me watch the game." Sound familiar? If so, the next time your lover's team comes on TV, make him a deal. You'll watch the game together, each picking a team and "betting" for sexual favors. For basketball fans, the next two points your team scores might get you a kiss on the neck. A three-point shot could earn your lover a sensual massage during the commercial break. For you football fans, your team's touchdown might be good for oral favors. Whatever rules you make up together, by the game's end, I doubt you'll end up watching television! Imagine the rest people..Hehe..
You don't necessarily need fancy games to spice things up! Take a regular deck of cards and simply assign naughty deeds to be done to each number. For example: A number seven card, no matter the suit, stands for an ear nibble; a nine may mean slow dancing ... naked; and face cards are wild. The point is, you and your lover make it the perfect sexy game for the both of you. Just shuffle the deck and pick a card for a night of sensual fun!
Don't forget to exercise the most important erotic muscle your have which is your mind. Letting yourself fantasize throughout the day about sexy scenes and sensual acts builds your anticipation and creativity. This is a surefire way to make sex that much more satisfying when you finally get to indulge, whether you have a lovemaking session with a partner or a solo session with the star of your fantasies!
Don't believe in the power of aphrodisiacs? Does the thought of oysters upping libido or chocolate being a substitute for sex make you want to laugh? Then perhaps you should try the more down-to-earth effects of everyday spices! Garlic is known for its circulation-boosting properties, so try adding some to your next meal to increase blood flow to special places. Not in the mood for garlic? Try ginger. It's a great taste enhancer (a very important one of your five senses) and causes a warm, tingly sensation when ingested, giving you a head start on other warm, tingly feelings! Oooo
There are so many delectable flavors of lubricant and edible body products now available, why settle for just one? Some night when you want to give your lover a special treat, dab different flavors of lubricant strategically over your different erogenous zones and have your sweetie taste your skin to discover them one by one. It will be a delicious adventure for both of you!
Why wait to be in your partner's arms to initiate a sexual romp? Let the foreplay begin on your drive home. Call your lover and start telling a hot story filled with sensual and sexy details about how you felt all day thinking about having a passionate, steamy encounter with them. What a definite turn on..Hahaha.. Above all, express that you can hardly wait to see and touch them. It will get your partner excited before you ever lay eyes on them. Inquire about the clothing your partner is wearing; you might even ask for all clothing to be removed by the time you get home! After all, what are cell phones for, if not to initiate important appointments? Use yours to indulge in some pre-foreplay and you'll make a sexy night together last even longer. Don't cheat with 3G..LOL!
Showering before sex doesn't just get you clean but moreover it prepares your body for ecstasy. Showering warms and loosens muscles, clears your nasal passages, thereby enhancing your sense of smell, and increases your circulation so that your body is more receptive to touch. (Good blood flow is a key to sexual responsiveness.) Want to make your pre-sex shower even more satisfying? Make it part of foreplay. Invite your partner to bathe with you and rub one another down with a sensual bath oil or aromatic bath gel.
Believe it or not, even air can be used as an erotic tool. A particularly enticing one during hot summer nights. Have your lover strip down to their birthday suit and lie flat on the bed with their eyes closed. (You might even want to blindfold them.) Then, use your breath or a small, handheld fan to blow on them gently, moving from erogenous zone to erogenous zone. Soon enough, they're likely to be begging for your touch. Damn, I'm loving this..
Consider the erotic possibilities of produce. Fruit is delicious and sensual, whether you and your partner share an erotic snack, place a morsel in your mouths to sweeten a kiss, or lightly rub juicy pieces over one another’s bodies to lick off. Try feeding your lover a succulent strawberry or a ripe piece of mango at the end of a romantic dinner and see where it leads! Example: Yogurt and bananas, kiwi or peach. Up to your own desires.
Massage is a wonderful, intimate way to be romantic with your partner, but even massages can become routine. So mix it up! One time touch your partner using only soft, feather-light strokes over every inch of their body. Another time, use different, oiled parts of your body, like your forearms, chest, and thighs to caress and rub your partner. You can even make massage a game, choosing the strokes and body parts, and different massage oils.
First, ask your partner to pick a favorite non-genital erogenous zone on their body (nape of neck, back of knee, earlobes, hands, tummy, etc.). Then, for the next 24 hours, lavish special attention on that one spot or zone. Try caressing it, kissing it, blowing on it, rubbing ice on it and get creative! The goal is to see just how heated up you can make each other throughout the day. This will lead to some really intense love making by evening.
On your next big date night with your partner, tantalize them with a playful adult scavenger hunt! Hide your sex toys and other racy treats around the house and give your lover clues on where to find them. To add some fun to the game, you might want to shed a piece of clothing each time they find something you’ve hidden. But let them know they can’t get their real prize until they’ve found the very last one. As for what that prize is, we'll leave that to your imagination!
- Daring Strip Poker/ BlackJack
If you’re in a frisky mood, try playing a game of strip poker (or rummy or gin) with your partner. When you’ve both lost all of your clothes, dare each other to do silly tricks in the buff. For instance, you could dare your naked partner to do a headstand, cartwheel or jumping jacks, or attempt to give you an erotic belly or hula dance. Anything that arouses or makes you go insane. You’re both sure to have a good laugh. Laughing with each other while naked can help boost your body confidence and is a great erotic mood enhancer.
The next time you and your lover are together, each take a piece of paper and draw a picture or outline of your body on it (even if it’s a stick figure!). Then, mark an X on every spot you want your lover to touch, lick or kiss. When you’re both done, trade papers. Now you have an erotic treasure map that you can use to explore your partner’s body. Eventhough its simple, but it can make you go crazy.
Surprise your lover by placing a drop of flavored oil, gel or anything somewhere on your body that you know your lover will lick during foreplay. Once the action starts, watch your lover’s face as they taste this unexpected treat. Chances are, they’ll soon be searching your body for more! Wow.
Fruit is delicious and sensual, whether sharing an erotic snack, rubbing it lightly over your lover's body or licking the juice off of select body parts. Try freezing some grapes and using them like an ice cube (just be sure not to choke on them!). Haha, or you might not have any erotic moments, only moments in the hospital.
Run an ice cube over your lover's body while it melts before sex/love making! They'll get the chills, and then you can warm them up.
